For many of us the time is here to help our aging parents or family members when it becomes difficult for them to manage on their own. Organizing our own family can be somewhat of a challenge at times and the additional responsibility of our helping our aging parents can be overwhelming. However, no one says you have to carry the responsibility all alone. As working parents with children, we are faced with new stresses to balance work and family. Families who are separated by great distances must make hard choices to provide care.